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Going to Kiss & Tell…

So you live in New York City? What do you know, so do I? Don’t have plans tomorrow night? Well I do! And you should come join!

I’m going to be part of an exciting event tomorrow Tuesday Feb 16th.  Abiola’s Kiss and Tell Live a sexy storytelling and performance series in New York City. Tomorrow night we will honor Deborah Gregory author and creator of The Cheetah Girls. It’s going to be hot hot hot!

The lineup for the evening (in no specific order) Mama Cheetah Deborah Gregory, Twanna Hines the Funky Brown Chick, filmmaker Therese Shechter of Trixie Films, Modern Courtesan Yolanda Shoshana, comic David Lester, Boy Butter creator Eyal Feldman, Lesbian Activist and Writer Renair Amin, Danielle Henderson of Knotty Yarn, singing duo Sabrina and Giorgio, Lost Plum (that’s me!) and Mia “On Top” Martina, erotic podcaster.

Kiss & Tell Live Erotica and Comedy! Fat Tuesday 2/16, free, 7-10pm at Madame X in NYC: http://bit.ly/csczOG

I’m going to read something that has yet to be posted, and may never be posted…so would you miss out!?

See you all there!

something has been missing…

So sometimes I don’t think. I’ll say it!  Sometimes my focus is drawn away from things. Now I get what I wanted to get done, but if it’s not on my lists, or a major importance then it can slip.

And feel bad this morning.  You see I let you all slip.  I mentioned last week that I had the next few weeks all preposted and wrote so that I could focus on work, and my ever-daunting apartment move.

FACT: I hate packing. I hate unpacking. I hate moving.

You see I did prewrite posts for everyday. I was very proud of this fact, and excited that I wouldn’t have to think about it.  Well this morning as I sit in the car waiting. (stupid offside/alternate side parking!)

I was thinking to myself I hadn’t received many comments, or an email in regards to the last few days posts.

This seemed odd. I might not get tons of comments, but I sure do always get emails.

SIDEBAR: I do read and enjoy all your emails. I’ve been really slow at getting back to all of them lately, but your reply is coming just you wait!

So, I go over to the blog, and low and behold I have nothing posted since Sunday. What?! But I wrote posts for the next two weeks, why aren’t they posting?  So I look into it, and there are no scheduled posts to go out that have been missed. In fact there is nothing.

SIDEBAR: There are SUNDAY PULLS, because those I have a backlog of.

Where are all my posts!!??  I was about 2 minutes from crying, and then I realized something.  Yup! I wrote them all in a word document, but never moved them to the blog.  I must have been so proud of myself for doing two weeks worth of blogs in one night that I rewarded myself with sleep and then forgot that I hadn’t complete what I set out to do.

And now I’m thinking how I do this in relationships.  I tend to think I’ve said what I am thinking.  I sometimes believe that guys should be able to read my mind, and therefore I don’t need to tell them how I feel. And this is how I get hurt. It’s like the last week when I talked about those little heartbreaks. The small ones that you try not to notice. Mostly these come about because I never say anything. I don’t stand up and say “HEY MR. YOU! I’VE FALLEN FOR YOU, AND I DON’T WANT TO GET UP” Instead, I assume they know this, I make jokes, brush off the important ‘feelings’ thing and end up not saying anything.

Just like the last few days…I’ve said nothing.  To the three of you that missed me, I’m sorry.

who has the best online dating profile: a contest.

If you’re one of those crazy kids who keeps coming back to my blog you have noticed something different on the right hand side.  The Who Has the Best Online Dating Profile button/badge/widget/what-cha-ma-call-it.

One of the best things about online dating is the ability to just brows though profile after profile as you secretly sit and judge people. Whether it is on their pictures, there likes, or their spelling.

Well now you can ‘judge’ out in the open. The  Who Has The Best Online Dating Profile Contest is a fun, feel good, and free contest.

SIDEBAR: Aren’t a member of OkCupid. It’s free so join, and check it out!  Maybe come find me….or don’t.

Both members and non-members have the opportunity to vote either on OKcupid, Right here, or on one of the numerous blogs helping to promote the contest. (like me–> to the right you can vote)

The Who Has the Best Online Dating Profile Contest runs through November 30, 2009. Winners will be announced on December 2, 2009. All contest participants will be automatically enrolled in a sweepstakes for $250 cash.

So come join the fun. Vote for your favorite, vote for your friends, vote for me, and vote for yourself (we all do that it’s perfectly acceptable)

Some of the great blogs (well besides mine!) helping to promote the contest (check them out):

Sex, Lies and Dating in the City, Little Miss Sarcasm, Suddenly Singles, Midtown Girl, Single Gal in the City, Rantings of a Single Girl, 20-forty.com, KB in NYC, Single City Guy, Your Dating Tales, You Make My Date, Not Your Mother’s Playground, Dating and Mating in America, Love in the Dumps, Swimming with Sharks, It Was Over When, Notes from the Dating Trenches

FACT: This contest is a co-promotion by SurveyGizmo.com and 2ChicksINC and is sponsored by OkCupid.

A little Nip a little Tuck….(DOT) COM

Welcome, this is my new home! My new domain! My new website! My new look!

I’ve had a little cosmetic sugary and have emerged looking finer then ever!  A little nip and tuck, here and there, never hurt anybody!

You can now find me here at Lostplum(dot) com

The old site will link you on over, but please update your book marks, your feeds, your stalker settings, and all that jazz so you can find me quickly and easily!

Also, my new website is iPhone friendly, and it looks pretty sexy I might add!

So welcome (and you’re welcome), take a look, and enjoy the view. It’s a whole new me on the outside, with the same old me on the inside!


falling behind…

I’m sick!

Well not uber sick. I just have a bronchial infection. No fever, no chills, not nothing. Just this terrible cough! Like shake the world cough!

So me and my sexy raspy voice are alittle behind on the blog……