A wall of desire…
I discussed standards the other day. How we need to learn to let things go after awhile. But thing is there are still things that we will always be attracted to about the opposite sex. I need nice teeth, some people need nice eyes, and some need boobs. This is the fact of life here, and that’s not to say some guy who loves boobs might fall in love with a flat as a little boy woman, it happens.
FACT: Me falling for a guy with bad teeth will never happen just so you know!
But what about a personality, or even more so the material things that reflect a persons personality.
We live in a materialistic world, and everyone loves things, no matter what they tell you. Things are good, and things somewhat make who you are. Like I hate getting rid of books that is telling to who I am.
So I’ve been thinking about what materials reflect well on a suitor I am have. Now reflecting materials are best seen in ones home. My kitchen aid mixer and my matching towels reflect more about my personality then my designer shoes and bags, or what glasses I happen to be wearing. How someone fills their living space, in a true reflection of how they fill their brain.
As I’ve slowly been unpacking my apartment and figuring out where to put everything I looked at my pile of art work and it made me think of guys. Guys with art.
Here is one thing I love, and something that will automatically make me intrigued and instantly more attracted to a guy. Art!
Now he doesn’t have to spend a fortune on art, or anything like that. Even one piece will make me look differently and pay more attention. This can even be a photograph. Guys with art make me swoon and get me interested in them. Their art choices tells alot about their personality, their likes, their dislikes, and their inner beauty.
I’ve become extremely attracted to guys with art collections, and photography walls. I can spend hours in museums so why not spend hours at a guy’s place admiring art and having sex.
An apartment without art is not a home, and if you don’t have a “home” why would I want to play house with you.
Do movie posters count? I have to agree not only in a date situation but in an EVERYONE kind of situation. When I go to friends houses and see no art in their apartments I think of them differently. Esp. if they have lived in their place for more then a year. How can you not have real art work? We live in NYC where you can buy wonderful original works for cheap in the parks and sidewalks.
very true. art makes a home and a man/woman.