Comments on: as good as I’m going to get… http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/ Mon, 30 Jan 2012 21:22:25 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jimmy http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1050 Jimmy Sat, 05 Dec 2009 12:37:15 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1050 I had a little crush on you until I read this... ;-) I had a little crush on you until I read this…
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]]> By: thrillhouse1134 http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1049 thrillhouse1134 Sat, 05 Dec 2009 07:06:55 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1049 Simply stated, in a similar way, no matter the relationship, I am meant only for goodbyes. Simply stated, in a similar way, no matter the relationship, I am meant only for goodbyes.

]]> By: lostplum http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1048 lostplum Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:57:01 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1048 peterfrank -- tis true, it might be different. good point! . carla -- thanks for your first comment, and I'm glad you enjoy :) . mr.todd -- I aim to please! thanks for your thoughts I'm glad I can add alittle enjoyment to your "gay" world. . jilly-bean -- WELCOME BACK MY DEAR! Can you recommend someone I should be seeing, you're right there are just so many reason why I need help. . xcetrachick -- thanks hon! . Erin Jiveleigh-- great quote! Oh daydreaming can be the worst. I too have been caught up in that and then I have always ended up crushed, when really it was all in my head. . Aussie -- SO TRUE! . Bubbles von BonBon -- Did I spell everything right? Even if for some reason I did, yes I guess I am the same person....I have some issues hidden under all this Wonderful! peterfrank — tis true, it might be different. good point!
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carla — thanks for your first comment, and I’m glad you enjoy :)
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mr.todd — I aim to please! thanks for your thoughts I’m glad I can add alittle enjoyment to your “gay” world.
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jilly-bean — WELCOME BACK MY DEAR! Can you recommend someone I should be seeing, you’re right there are just so many reason why I need help.
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xcetrachick — thanks hon!
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Erin Jiveleigh– great quote! Oh daydreaming can be the worst. I too have been caught up in that and then I have always ended up crushed, when really it was all in my head.
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Aussie — SO TRUE!
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Bubbles von BonBon — Did I spell everything right? Even if for some reason I did, yes I guess I am the same person….I have some issues hidden under all this Wonderful!

]]> By: Bubbles von BonBon http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1047 Bubbles von BonBon Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:25:38 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1047 Are we the same person.....? :) Are we the same person…..? :)

]]> By: aussie http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1046 aussie Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:36:39 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1046 I see someone just posted the quote that I was about to, but hell, I'll post it anyway.... "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." -- Marilyn Monroe coulda woulda shoulda... if it was meant to be, it would find a way. I see someone just posted the quote that I was about to, but hell, I’ll post it anyway….

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
– Marilyn Monroe

coulda woulda shoulda… if it was meant to be, it would find a way.

]]> By: Erin Jiveleigh http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1045 Erin Jiveleigh Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:14:42 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1045 "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe ^^One of my fav quotes and thought it seemed somewhat fitting. I think it sounds you're insecure that it might not work out and worried that if you don't get all of your potentially disfunctional differences out in the open, you could end up getting hurt. Similarly, when I meet a guy that I really like, I daydream about why we would be so good together. Then to give myself a reality-check I have to come up with scenarios as to why we won't work. That way I am protecting myself from vulnerability - which can damage a relationship from the beginning. “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” – Marilyn Monroe

^^One of my fav quotes and thought it seemed somewhat fitting.

I think it sounds you’re insecure that it might not work out and worried that if you don’t get all of your potentially disfunctional differences out in the open, you could end up getting hurt. Similarly, when I meet a guy that I really like, I daydream about why we would be so good together. Then to give myself a reality-check I have to come up with scenarios as to why we won’t work. That way I am protecting myself from vulnerability – which can damage a relationship from the beginning.

]]> By: xcetrachick http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1044 xcetrachick Fri, 04 Dec 2009 14:58:23 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1044 Nice post! :) Nice post! :)

]]> By: jilly-bean http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1043 jilly-bean Fri, 04 Dec 2009 14:55:45 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1043 just another reason why you are still single! You should really seek help I mean that. You have some really bad deep seeded issues about relationships and people in general. just another reason why you are still single! You should really seek help I mean that. You have some really bad deep seeded issues about relationships and people in general.

]]> By: mr.todd http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1042 mr.todd Fri, 04 Dec 2009 14:54:23 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1042 you posted early today. impressive. i don't think anything has been ruined from the past. if it wasn't going to work a few things about why it "might" not are not going to ruin that. i really enjoy your blog it always getting me thinking that it is ok to be me and single and searching in this crazy crazy city. that sounded so gay HA. you posted early today. impressive. i don’t think anything has been ruined from the past. if it wasn’t going to work a few things about why it “might” not are not going to ruin that. i really enjoy your blog it always getting me thinking that it is ok to be me and single and searching in this crazy crazy city. that sounded so gay HA.

]]> By: carla http://www.lostplum.com/2009/12/04/as-good-as-im-going-to-get/#comment-1041 carla Fri, 04 Dec 2009 14:50:26 +0000 http://www.lostplum.com/?p=831#comment-1041 great post. I really enjoy your blog:) great post. I really enjoy your blog:)

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