Archive for November 13th, 2009

out there…

I sent my first ever email via online dating the other day. I don’t know why really. I don’t have time to eat and sleep so why am I thinking I have time to go on a date.

I have never made first contact with a guy online before. Unless you count doing those okcupid quick matches, but I’m so addicted to hitting one-star I can’t help myself!  But actually get up the nerve to send an email; I’ve never done it. I’d like to think that it’s cause I’m shy or something like that but the fact of the matter is at the end of the day I’m a snob.

I want a guy to come to me, to impress me, to woo me. I’m to good to make that effort. Guys should be coming to me, not the other way around. And then I realized that is such a bitchy thing to think (regardless of how true it is).

So I saw a profile, it caught my eye, not once but maybe 5 times. So I sent a message. I doubt I’ll get a message back but such is life.

So to all the guys who get up the nerve to send girls email. I have alittle more respect for you. Unless your sending generic “we got so much in common” emails then you all can go screw yourselves cause that’s really when this “snob” is WAY to good for you!