Management Position Available…
I mentioned the other day how I’ve been finding notes on my phone that I took during Dating Boot Camp. Well, I’m back with another little snippet.
Every woman needs to (apparently) manage their date. And on top of that learn to manage the date, period. Now we aren’t talking the ‘guy’ or person you are on a date with. We are talking about the actual date, ie. the event.
Here’s the thing: I don’t want to manage a date. In fact, I want a date to be open for interpretation, full of nice surprises (not these type of surprises), and always open for an adventure at hand.
Do people really walk into first dates with a play-by-play in hand? Where is the excitement? Where is the enjoyment in that?
No one should be the disciplinary figure on a date…..well at least not till later on!
(reason #___why I’m single: I just like going with the flow)
If a girl “managed” me I’d run away fast.
they gave wacked up advise on guys at that thing. good thing you went for the fun of it. i never want to meet the women who took it serious!
I think it’s better to manage the first few dates, just so neither party is stressed. It won’t be boring, because you’re obviously getting to know each other – and that’s where the mystery and excitement comes in! But if you’ve been dating each other for a while, being spontaneous can definitely spark things up… ;)