Clowning Around…
I talked the other day about notes I make/leave on my cell phone. I forced myself to do a good clean up on my phone. In doing so I found notes or “snippets” I had from boot camp, most of which I have yet to address.
So, let me indulge you on another piece of knowledge I’ve learned via Dating Boot Camp. The topic was things NOT to do in bed. I’ve already talked about a few of these before but I forgot about this morsels:
Laughing. Do not laugh in bed.
Now, at first one may think that this means no laughing at the guy’s package, or hairy chest, or what have you. However, this is actually for all laughter. Never laugh in bed. Period. Apparently, guys are very self-conscious (and the ladies are too) and any sign of laughing automatically makes them think you are laughing AT them.
Back the clown car up a minute!
I get that we are all self-conscious, about our bodies and then some. But no laughing! There are two worlds I don’t want to live in: The one with out sex, and the one without laughter.
I don’t think I’m alone in this, but laughing in bed is a turn on. Sex is fun, awkward, ridiculous, and is simply a great time to giggle, laugh and make fun of the situation. The say laughter is the best medicine, and they are right! Laughter is contagious and in a sense lets us let lose.
We’ve all had those shirts caught on our heads, hands tangled in hair, bras not coming undone, that’s right I’m not wearing underwear, zips not working, belt buckle mishaps, and I’m tick-a-lish moments!
As awkward as some of these moments maybe we can all admit they are funny, and there is nothing wrong with laughing. Laughter tells someone are enjoying the moment, and having a good time.
We aren’t five years old anymore, no one laughs and points fingers at someone else flaws.
So jump in bed (or someplace else) roll around and laugh! It’s ok to do it, I promise!
SIDEBAR: Laughter increases your life span (this is a proven study) so why wouldn’t you want to increase your sex life. Just saying!
(reason #___why I’m single: I’ve listed cleanup/sort blackberry notes to my calendar every month)
Wow. I’d forgotten all about that. I actually have the opposite kind of policy – never sleep with a guy (a second time) if he DOESN”T smile in bed, by which I mean during sex. I really hate saying “in bed” when what I mean is “during sex” or something even more descriptive.
Anyway, I have had the misfortune of hooking up with guys who take themselves a little TOO seriously. Sex is fun. People should smile. No smile, no nooky. It’s just that simple.
OH you are soo right! I don’t think I’ll even be “in bed” with a guy who doesn’t smile. I might actually be like “stop, get out!” Sex is fun and you’re right it is that simple!
something about the thought of you in a clown car gets me excited, even if we havent meet.