Comments on: on the Public Defense… http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/ Mon, 30 Jan 2012 21:22:25 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: (words per minute) | The Lost Plum… http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-1153 (words per minute) | The Lost Plum… Tue, 29 Dec 2009 18:32:42 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-1153 [...] thing!  If I can recall moments where we have kissed that’s pretty good too.  We all know how I feel about PDA’s but if I find myself wanting kiss him in public, that’s just even [...]

[...] thing!  If I can recall moments where we have kissed that’s pretty good too.  We all know how I feel about PDA’s but if I find myself wanting kiss him in public, that’s just even [...]

]]> By: lostplum http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-182 lostplum Thu, 23 Jul 2009 19:07:07 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-182 alejandra, your not wanting to be the small spoon reason (warm nostril CO-2) made me laugh out loud....really LOL! I'm not a hand sweater, and it's even stranger cause my hands are always cold so you think I would like to have them held...hmm...oh well, thank you for the good giggle, and I have a feeling the next time I'm laying beside a guy and I can hear/feel his warm CO-2 I will giggle to myself!! alejandra, your not wanting to be the small spoon reason (warm nostril CO-2) made me laugh out loud….really LOL! I’m not a hand sweater, and it’s even stranger cause my hands are always cold so you think I would like to have them held…hmm…oh well, thank you for the good giggle, and I have a feeling the next time I’m laying beside a guy and I can hear/feel his warm CO-2 I will giggle to myself!!

]]> By: Alejandra http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-181 Alejandra Thu, 23 Jul 2009 18:33:42 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-181 Ha!! Fuck, I just don't understand the PDA. Guys need to understand that I am a freak of nature, I don't sweat through my armpits, I sweat through my hands, so holding hands while walking through Central Park is not remotely romantic for me, it's gross!! If it's cold out, I need my hands to be in the jacket pocket so I don't lose a digit. Also, I moisturize my hands a lot, so sweat + lotion + guy's hand = gross sticky mess. Don't get me wrong, I'm not that dead inside. It actually makes my knees weak when a guy holds my hand to cross the street, weird, I know. But the kissing, hugging and excessiveness on the streets is a big NO. And I totally agree with you, if we must spoon, then I'd rather be the big spoon (even though I'm really short, haha) because I WILL NOT STAND his warm nostril CO2-filled air on top of me when I'm trying to relax. Absolutely NOT. Ha!!
Fuck, I just don’t understand the PDA.
Guys need to understand that I am a freak of nature, I don’t sweat through my armpits, I sweat through my hands, so holding hands while walking through Central Park is not remotely romantic for me, it’s gross!! If it’s cold out, I need my hands to be in the jacket pocket so I don’t lose a digit.
Also, I moisturize my hands a lot, so sweat + lotion + guy’s hand = gross sticky mess.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not that dead inside. It actually makes my knees weak when a guy holds my hand to cross the street, weird, I know.

But the kissing, hugging and excessiveness on the streets is a big NO.

And I totally agree with you, if we must spoon, then I’d rather be the big spoon (even though I’m really short, haha) because I WILL NOT STAND his warm nostril CO2-filled air on top of me when I’m trying to relax. Absolutely NOT.

]]> By: lostplum http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-180 lostplum Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:16:57 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-180 I am not Latin : (..... Now I'm def. not saying I don't love the private affection....Jen, I think it's great you love it! Go you and your lucky guy : ) I am not Latin : (….. Now I’m def. not saying I don’t love the private affection….Jen, I think it’s great you love it! Go you and your lucky guy : )

]]> By: Jen http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-179 Jen Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:12:43 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-179 OMG you're so not Latin, are you? I love physical affection whether in private or public. Of course tame is the name of the game in public, but if I'm with a guy and he doesn't hold my hand in public, put his arm around or reaches out to touch me at some point, I immediately start having doubts about him and me, and if we'll eventually work out. Love physical affection, love it! OMG you’re so not Latin, are you? I love physical affection whether in private or public. Of course tame is the name of the game in public, but if I’m with a guy and he doesn’t hold my hand in public, put his arm around or reaches out to touch me at some point, I immediately start having doubts about him and me, and if we’ll eventually work out. Love physical affection, love it!

]]> By: Nathan http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-178 Nathan Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:42:03 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-178 Well I wasn't fishing for that as a topic but I certainly wouldn't mind reading your thoughts on the matter. Well I wasn’t fishing for that as a topic but I certainly wouldn’t mind reading your thoughts on the matter.

]]> By: lostplum http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-177 lostplum Thu, 23 Jul 2009 00:37:06 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-177 Is that you wanting me to write about foreplay? hmm.... I'll think about it ;) Is that you wanting me to write about foreplay? hmm…. I’ll think about it ;)

]]> By: Nathan http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-176 Nathan Wed, 22 Jul 2009 23:04:36 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-176 I would like to interact more but duty calls and what not with the day job. Foreplay is indeed its own thing entirely. Probably deserving of a blog all it's own. I would like to interact more but duty calls and what not with the day job.

Foreplay is indeed its own thing entirely. Probably deserving of a blog all it’s own.

]]> By: lostplum http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-175 lostplum Wed, 22 Jul 2009 21:24:52 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-175 Nathan, you are so right on it not being your first comment! I am so sorry as soon as you said that I knew your comment (my bad, my bad) I agree with you that there is something to be said for PDA once drinking has been involved! (and of course foreplay is its own thing!) Nathan, you are so right on it not being your first comment! I am so sorry as soon as you said that I knew your comment (my bad, my bad) I agree with you that there is something to be said for PDA once drinking has been involved! (and of course foreplay is its own thing!)

]]> By: Nathan http://www.lostplum.com/2009/07/21/on-the-public-defense/#comment-174 Nathan Wed, 22 Jul 2009 18:49:22 +0000 http://lostplum.wordpress.com/?p=498#comment-174 Not to mention that losing a little control wouldn't be nearly as fun with a little self restraint before hand. That's why (one of many reasons) foreplay is so much fun. Not to mention that losing a little control wouldn’t be nearly as fun with a little self restraint before hand. That’s why (one of many reasons) foreplay is so much fun.

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