Comments on: lets get positive….

By: MATTY MATT

MATTY MATT — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 20:29:35 +0000

did you physics classes teach you to add. lmfao.

By: lostplum

lostplum — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 00:56:17 +0000

well thank you : )
I think we all are guilty of things (above and not) more times then none!

By: William H. Swagspeare

William H. Swagspeare — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 00:25:33 +0000

just to be honest i’ve probably been guilty of all 5. but it’s life. i’ve actually sworn off marriage. i dont even date. i meet tons of women and i can hardly keep up with who to talk to. i totally enjoy reading your post.

By: lostplum

lostplum — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:25:45 +0000

pretty sure you’re a chick too! We all think the negatives, but I think we are all “searching” for the positives!

By: lostplum

lostplum — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:24:48 +0000

teifion thanks for your first comment. What a great story! I might have to use it/steal it sometime. I’d like to think I balance the positives as well. I mean I think negatives about guys, but in the end I’m always looking for the positives…and I think we all do that (male or female)

By: teifion

teifion — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:18:26 +0000

I recall class when I was in secondary school (not sure what it’s called over there) where the teacher got a sheet of A4 paper with a large black circle on it and asked us what it was. We correctly replied “A large black circle”.

The next sheet was another shape, a bit smaller. The next sheet another shape and smaller still, after about 5 sheets even us at the front had trouble.

Finally the teacher got a fresh sheet and put a dot on the paper, it was passed around class until we’d all seen it. I came to the conclusion that it must be a circle because it was a dot and a pen would not leave straight edges at that size.

The teacher told us we were wrong, it was a sheet of paper with a dot on it, we were so focused on something small that we missed the bigger picture.

The morale of the story is that most of the time we blow negatives up to make them huge, the real moral of the story, the moral that we were not told; is that sometimes we don’t need to blow negatives out of proportion, they’re like that already.

I like to think that I have a balanced and fair view of positives and negatives but then, don’t we all? I think what you need to do if you want to know if you’re a positive or negative is to ask honest friends. We here over the internet probably can’t help much.

By: SINgleGIRL

SINgleGIRL — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 23:10:14 +0000

You took way better notes than I did. I forgot all about that. What a load of crap. When I think about my past relationships I absolutely think of the negatives.

And I’m pretty damn sure I’m a chick.